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Now that you’ve got your results, it’s time to deep dive into the world of kink and fetish. Below, we break it all down for you so you can explore every facet of yourself in the bedroom.
So, What Does This All Mean?
BDSM stands for Bondage & Discipline, Domination & Submission, Sadism & Masochism.
Whether you’re surprised by your results or were expecting them, there tends to be a lot of stigma around BDSM. But we’re here to remind you that everyone has fantasies and scenarios that turn them on. Kinks and fetishes are totally normal!
Your kinks or fetishes might be fantasies you’re ready to try in real life, or you might be happy with them living in your head rent-free. They can even be a mixture of the two.
There’s generally going to be some kind of power play dynamic when it comes to kinks and fetishes. Control and power govern our everyday lives, and you may not even notice it. It’s no different in the bedroom. Playing with these dynamics in a safe space can make for a thrilling (and super sexy) experience.
Discuss your kinks, fetishes, and fantasies with your partner. Communicate your limits, set safe words or signals, and determine the terms you want to use. BDSM is all about proper communication.
You can set your safe word as anything (pineapple is often a favourite), but we like to recommend the traffic light safe word. Green means go. Yellow means slow down/you’re approaching your limit. Red means stop.
