Whether you are a beginner or an expert at sex toys, dildos are always a classic. With so many types, designs, forms, and shapes, it is easy to find your pick, no matter your preference. But though this variety makes your options open, it can also be overwhelming for a first-timer. Here is a complete guide on the erotic sex toy; what they are, how to use one, and maintain it for the best experience.



What is a Dildo?

It is a simple-shaped sex toy that resembles a penis. It has a tip (the head of the penis), a sleeve, and a base. Some are long, and others are thicker. In the same way, some are straight, and the rest are curved. Fetish explorers can also enjoy the peculiarity of fantasy and monster-shaped variants.


Many manufacturers also take their time to create distinct types with several characteristics. There are hollow designs made for men and also vibrating types. A few others come with straps or are double-ended. To avoid getting confused, check out these types.

How to Use and Clean a Dildo

When you finally decide which hot stick to choose, you must use it correctly to maximize its full pleasuring potential. You can use this throbbing mechanism in several ways but you always have to follow the same procedure. Here is a list of steps that show how to use a dildo. There are some tips on how to clean a dildo as well.

Lube it up


Apply enough lubricant on your orifice area (the place you wish to insert the dildo). Pour some lube on the throbbing mechanism and spread it out like you are giving a hand-job.

Lube a Dildo

Get in a comfortable position

There are numerous positions to get into, but the most basic sex position to use a dildo is to lie on your back and raise your legs with your knee coming close to your face. Spread your legs wide and try to insert the rod-toy into your vagina.

position for dildo play

Insert the sex toy slowly and gently

Start slowly by pushing the dick toy through the opening. Push deeper with a gentle force and feel the size of the hot stick enter slowly. If it feels painful or uncomfortable, stop, add more lube, and try again. When the penis-shaped sex toy is entirely in (ensure that the base stays out in the open), you can continue to ride your dildo to orgasm.

how to insert a dildo

Clean after use


After you have satisfied yourself, wash the device with mild soap and lukewarm water. Don’t immerse in water unless it is waterproof.

Store it in a cool, dry place away from heat, moisture, dust, and direct sunlight

clean a dildo

How to Ride a Dildo

The techniques to ride dildo are simple: foreplay, lubricants, and penetration (start slow). But what about the craft behind the action? Below are a few creative ways to ride dildo for ultimate bedsheet-squeezing pleasure.

1. Milk the G-spot by positioning the throbbing mechanism so it goes up toward your bladder. 


Tips: Try to hit your G-spot with sharp, short bursts - makes the sensation hotter. 

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2. Rotate while it's inside because it is not all about in-and-out thrusts. Feel the thickness and veins around the sex toy for sensational heat

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3. Deep thrusts, especially in a fast rhythm, release unexplainable pleasure in the anus and vagina. But make sure to begin slowly.

dildo deep thrust

4. Double Action with a double-penetration dildo or with your hands can work like magic. Leaving you shaking uncontrollably with pleasure, stimulation of the clitoris or perineum with a throbbing device is exhilarating.


Tips: Hands-free dildo with straps or a suction cup can make it feel like the real deal.

dildo double penetration

How to Make a Dildo

If you feel creative or want to try homemade dick sex toys, here are some ideas for a DIY option. However, don’t rely on these products because they are less sturdy and predictable. It is better to purchase a dildo. It is even greater because they are of different types and prices. Here are some ideas for a homemade dildo;

how to make a dildo

Farm Produce: Some foodstuff items like a cucumber or a carrot have the right shape to replicate the penis-like adult toy. Even a condom on a banana is a great homemade option.

Beauty Products: Makeup brushes or hair brushes have sturdy handles that can make for a great dildo. Just don’t try to push it all in there, or it might be challenging to pull it out. 

Bathroom Products: If you are having a heated time in a bathroom and need to quickly let it off, the showerhead can replace the thrusting device perfectly and so can the shampoo bottle or a toothbrush. If you use an electric toothbrush, it is safer to use it in the absence of water. 

Types of Dildo

Generally, there are numerous types because they differ in shape, function, color, design, or size. But to make things easier, this is a classification of the penis-shapes sex toy based on different criteria.

Based on Size

The sex toy can either be long or short, thick or slim. It can also be wide and long (also called a monster or a large thick dildo). The average size of a penis is 6 inches in length and 1-inch in width. This is also the size of a regular type. Long ones can sometimes be 12 inches long, and thick variants of the erotica can sometimes be up to 6 inches wide. The shorter lengths are for anal penetration (more on that soon).

Based on Function

There are currently three additional functions that manufacturers add to a simple dick-toy; vibration qualities, waterproof features, or a hands-free characteristic. Vibrators can be infused into it to create repetitive rhythms for increased stimulations. A vibrating dildo can pose circular, up-and-down, or a mix of both motions. Waterproof types are used in the water, pool, shower, or bathtub. Finally, these two kinds can be attached to a harness (straps) if wanted or made as a suction cup dildo for hands-free action.

Zone for Stimulation

Dildos are made for vagina or anal stimulation. Where simple eroticas stimulate each of these zones, a double-penetrating penis-like toy is for both. The double-penetrating dick toy has two hot sticks attached to it - one for the vagina and one for the anal area; so that both orifices are simultaneously stimulated.

Based on Material

Finally, realistic and nonrealistic materials are used to make the hot stick, but both promise an orgasmic experience. Natural materials include SuperSkin or Cyber skin types, Ultraskyn dildos, rubber, TPE, and the most common of all, Silicone dildos. Non-realistic materials include soft plastic and glass.

Conclusion

The world of sex toys is like a full universe; so many things to explore. Start with the dildo today and you can move up from there. Settle down, think about where you want to start - and if that thought is overwhelming, start at the beginning. Choose a simple, 6-inched black option with simple features. You won’t regret your decision.